There
a lots of good reasons to postpone sex:
Allows you to experience other areas of your life before
you have a sexual relationship.
You can develop stronger relationships based on trust and
friendship, without complicating emotions with sex.
It
may be in accordance with your spiritual values.
You
won't have regrets later for not waiting for the right person.
Postponing
sex frees you from worrying about unplanned pregnancy and
STDs.
You
will gain the respect of others for sticking to the decision
that is right for you.
Before
you talk to you partner, think about your reason for postponing
sex and why your partner should support you in that decision.
Here's
some example statements you can try with your partner.
"This will bring us closer."
"Yes and waiting gives us the opportunity to get even
closer. If we wait, we'll get to know each other even better.
The closer we are, the better it will be."
"What's wrong, don't you wanna be with me?"
"Of course I want to be with you. I find you attractive
and I love you. We don't have to have sex just yet to express
that to each other."
"Why put off what's eventually going to happen anyways?"
"And when it happens we're not going to have any regrets
that we waited."
"Are you really trying to tell me that you have something?"
"What I'm saying is that I'd rather wait and be safer
than sorry."
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